No Reception in the States

So since our wedding is in Nigeria it is looking like people are cheap.

No scratch that! People are selfish. And I have decided that I am not going to go into debt over a damn reception so that someone can come over and eat my shit and act like they are happy for me!. Seriously if you think about it, what really is the purpose of throwing a party here. I am sorry for my friends who can't come home with me because I really wanted to have this whole friends thing going, and to be honest baby and I wanted to invite just 100 of our close friends and family, enjoy on a boat. But now we are not even going to have that.

What we are left with is nothing.

We are going to cut the whole reception idea out because I am pissed off. Maybe tomorrow I will feel better but my mother made a strong point "the party in Nigeria is the biggest and loudest and if you miss it! then you miss it! Start your new life debt free" Imagine someone suggesting I should take a loan

I know not all families are like mine. Not everyon is like me and thinks about others and helps others. So I will have my fabolous wedding in Nigeria and then suffer in silence as I contemplate how soon I can move away from the east coast and all this negative energy!

I am seriously considering that Columbia Law might not be in my best interest. It would plant me in the center of people I am ready to leave behind. So I am leaning towards Alaska! Really!
I have bent and compromised for everyone and now that I think about it.
Whey the hell am I going to let my parents spend so much money.

That's it we are eloping!

Baby! Get your stuff, we are eloping and all that money we saved up for the reception here we are going to spend it on us! Dammit!! I always wanted to go to Italy. Wouldn't that be great! An italian honeymoon. Sorry mom and dad, but since people couldn't agree and be helpful, wait until vixen, menty or monika decide to marry. I mean I am not about to have my faboulous ebony skin break out in boils just because some people couldn't compromise too. This isn't about you! It's about us, get that straight! and if you can't bend Then forget it! I am tired and going to bed!