Family

Two things are very true:

One is that your family upbringing will have an influence on how you approach the world and who you become

The second fact is that you will have elements of your family members in you that you love or distaste and others will see it.

That being said I want to say I have found the origin of Baby's sweetness. Yes it is true. With all the drama going on for the last three days, I was throwing myself into a fit. I mean loosing it completely and who do you think called me yesterday?

My soon to be father-in-law. He called to see how I was doing. And to encorage me that there was a solution and he would work everything out with Bola. He also said I shouldn't worry that everything was under control. He made me laugh and by the time he got of the phone I was smiling.

When Baby got home he did the same thing. I had gotten off the phone with other people who had once again upset me and Baby came home and was so sweet, making me laugh and have a great night.

I thought about it this morning and realized that there are some genes worth having! And some worth loosing! I don't know if everything our parents gave us are good but we should always keep the good and kick the bad!

My father gave me the ability to be extremely forgiving and gullible. But my mother gave me ability to cut people out of my life if they stress me. So i try to balance both. i don't like to be decieved and treated unkindly like I am a child. I hate people controlling my life and telling me what to do, and I hate people who are spoiled and think they can get what they want just by pouting and causing drama. In fact people like that get my mother's side of me. The cold distant side that keeps people at bay so they don't affect her!

I love people who are warm and considerate of others. Honest without being mean and frank. They tell the truth and are open to correction and love to have a great time! People who enjoy laughing and try and stay clear of drama. These people get my father's side of me that pulls you in and I would go the extra mile for you

So if you are out there and I have gone the extra mile and show you all of my honesty and devotion it's because I genuinely love and care about you. But if I have been disdainfull and cruel it's because you are a bitch and I can't stand phony people. So take your phony ass as get to stepping!